What if all you ever needed to do was decide and you could bring forth any experience you wanted? You could summon it from within and watch it unfold in the world around you just as you wanted it. Is this a fantasy?
For those who have traveled into the depths of reality, it is not fantasy; it is what is occurring on a perpetual basis. Unfortunately, we are all so unaware of this mechanism that we are constantly creating chaos, disappointment, and other such undesirable outcomes. Many have lost touch with the power to create a more favorable reality for themselves. Gratefully the capacity to create more favorable life scenarios is slowly making its way into our awareness.
Conscious life creation is a system that has only a few parameters.
You must know how to create the flow of thoughts that favor you versus harm you and how to originate these thoughts.
You must know how to establish inner certainty in the thoughts you decide to implement into your reality.
You must be willing to live with the consequences of your decision.
Once you have created these parameters, you are the master of your destiny.
Hogwash you say? Let’s look at the last parameter first by taking the example of our less than beloved President. How do you feel about his decisions? Do you know how to establish the certainty that his Presidency will wake up the people of the United States to the callousness of heart that those in powerful positions have held concerning their fellow Americans in less influential positions in society? Do you stomp your feet in the certainty that this is an absolute outrage!? Or do you say, this President is certain to wake up numerous people to the hard-heartedness in politics, and this hard-heartedness is mine to mend? I decide to flow the loving appreciation of multiple viewpoints, self-empowerment, and loving connection into the collective?
Do you see what I mean? Are you willing to see that the consequences of your decisions are yours to endure?
Let us get more personal. Let’s say you are convinced that you have never been truly loved by anyone because you just aren’t good enough for the kind of love you want. What do you think that means for your life experience? What if you decided instead, “I am here to see all I can be, and I look forward to seeing life with others who wish to see as I do?” How could that change the possibility for you to enjoy your life experience?
Now let’s back up and discuss inner certainty.
What does this mean? Imagine you are all of reality, everything seen and unseen. Holding this in your awareness is important because if you see yourself as a separate part of creation, then you will not be able to blend your wish into the life outside of your body. Now you say, “What?? I don’t do this when I decide things in my life now,” right? Or do you?
Consider how this works for you. When you decide about how things are, do you consult anyone or do you inwardly hold your mind in certainty about your decision and say essentially, “and so it is.”
What you don’t realize is that your thoughts are not your secret business. Your thoughts are commands into the fabric of life about what you are to experience next.
As Deepak Chopra wrote in a recent book, “we live in a participatory universe.”
You are not a piece of this universe; you are it. You decide your experience of it from a very personal perspective so you can feel your power to be amazing at every level.
Now let’s look at creating inner certainty.
Without understanding who you are, it is easy to feel disempowered by the system that is operating without a conscious pilot.
“Where is this life taking me?” is a question you may have asked yourself a few times in the ups and downs of it all. By knowing who you are, you can take back the command of the ship to sail it into places easier to navigate.
You can say to yourself, “what would I prefer to experience right now?” when you are in the midst of a tumultuous moment. When you feel you know the answer, hold this decision of having the preferred experience right now into certainty. Deciding that you already have this experience brings in from your inner world the possibility to feel the shift of this new reality coming into your inner reality first. Feel this thought form in your inner mind. Try it on. When you have decided it fits as you would like it to, declare it so. This declaration sends the inner knowing of your decision out to the rest of who you are to carry it out as requested.
It is essential to maintain a connection with all that you are until your request feels fulfilled. What I mean by this, is that you are not left in doubt that it was not handed off properly because certainty means you feel it as already so in your inner mind. Losing the connection with all you are before your command is fully discharged is what causes the most discouragement in the dynamic of creating your reality.
Developing the Habit of Delight
Consciously creating your reality is a dynamic that requires a deliberate intention to hold who you are in your mind because creating in the way that serves you is not a habit well developed.
Our mind has circuitry that is taking our commands all the time out into the matrix of life. We use this system unconsciously and have no trouble with making the commands appear into reality just as we expect them to show up.
For example, we might say, “You never listen to me when I am talking to you.” And then sure enough, when that person doesn’t hear a thing; you say, “See, I knew you wouldn’t listen to me.”
The command was given, “You never listen to me” and fulfilled, “Didn’t hear a thing.”
Creating In Your Favor
So what is so different about this negative life experience creation than creating it the way you prefer? Only the certainty with which we believe a positive command will be fulfilled.
We have conditioned ourselves to such a degree to expect life to serve us misery that we have lost touch with the notion that it could just as easily serve up delight. We need to recondition our minds to expect delight.
We cannot, however, expect delight if we do not ask for it. The reason this delight can never happen without communicating a command is that there is no one else here. I decide how it is because I am the only one who can. We are all connected in a unity of consciousness, one indivisible whole, the oneness of life.
All for One and One for All?
How we can all personally decide and yet all experience what we decide at the same time is the next hurdle of misunderstanding to jump over.
The complexity with which a circumstance is created on a personal level and the collective level is beyond our ability to fathom, but consider it this way. One body knows how to move all of the individual parts to move in the direction it chooses, right?
For example, if you want to move forward your leg is stretching out to put the foot further on the path you are walking. Your torso is operating to make the next movements needed in the other leg to occur. Your blood is circulating. Your oxygen intake is coming in while the carbon dioxide is going out. And so on. It is the intelligence underlying all of these processes that coordinates the dance of it all. The same is true for all life creation. The mind you are operating is operating in concert with the other minds through this intelligent coordination.
Now the Subject of Originating Thoughts.
Originating thoughts is not the same thing as having thoughts. Originating a thought is done by holding your mind open to the flow of information that rides on the mindful awareness of the breath. This is a process that has not been very well understood, but once you have consciously done it once it becomes a thrill of discovering the unknown in a way you may not have believed was possible before you experienced it for yourself.
Originating a thought is creating an answer from your universal mind to a predicament you may be experiencing.
For example, you are trying to think of your next great idea for the work project proposal that is due the next day, but you’ve got nothing. You become quiet. You breathe. You relax. You tune into the flow of positive information that is riding on the awareness of your breath. You ask yourself, “what new endeavor could I propose to my colleagues that would make us all want to work together, enthusiastically?” You sink into receptivity and flow. As you hold your mind open and flow your breath your answer floods in, there it is your original thought, your excellent new idea.
The enthusiasm for the thought gives rise to action, and off you go putting your new idea into reality.
Sourcing solutions from your entire mind brings the confidence that a beautiful life is yours to create.
Albert Einstein wrote of using this method of thinking as he did his famous “thought experiments.” He would relax on the bus on the way home, asking questions about scenarios that puzzled him then moved into receptivity and received his answers.
Recap from Start to Finish
Get an answer to a predicament with an empowering question, wait openly for the answer. When the answer arrives, decide if you will create this experience or not. If you want to create it express it as if it is already so with certainty, feel it into the fabric of life and be delighted with the outcome, enjoy your results, amend as desired!
Think big, dream big, create joyfully! You’ve got this!!
In certainty of your greatness, Katherine Blake Tomasson, a.k.a the Joy Architect